Golf

Golf, the sport that I have been playing for around 60 years, with the exceptions of 1964 and 1995. It is an activity that has given me enjoyment, heartbreak, and has kept me fascinated the entire time I have been playing. I was introduced to the game, as I was introduced to all sports, by my father. Our three main sports, were bowling, baseball and golf. I have many fond memories of golfing and bowling with my Dad, that will be with me forever. One of the things my Dad would always do, when we had to wait on the tee box, was to look for tees. During the round he and I would find anywhere from 20 to 30 tees per round. To this day, when there is a delay on the tee box, I do this, just as a remembrance to my Dad. The game has come a long way since those teenage days of the sixties. However, the game has taken a downturn in participation, since the turn of this century. The reasons given are, the economy, since the 2008 crash, not as much leisure time, it is not a game for the millennials, and it is just too hard to learn. It is a difficult game to learn, and then go out and play for the first time. There are people in front of and behind you, seemingly watching your every move. If you are learning and you play slow, which goes hand in hand, it can be stressful trying to keep up with the group in front of you. You have enough stress in life. You don’t need more, doing some leisure activity. Golf courses are not being built any more in the U.S, but there is still plenty of places to play. There is no doubt that it is a consumer market right now. Golf rates to play are more than reasonable.

If you have never played golf and are thinking about starting, now is as good as any, to give it a try. There are plenty of times when courses are not busy, and you can get out and get started. The best way to start is to take a lesson, but if you don’t want to get into that expense, then there are many great instructional books that can get you started in the game. If you have a group of friends that might want to start together, group lessons are usually very reasonable. To get started, hit balls at a driving range, for a few times. Then play par 3 courses and what’s called executive courses that are courses that have mostly par 3’s and some short par 4 holes. If you have a week day off, then play in the middle of day when these courses are not crowded. You should have freedom to take your time and learn the game. After playing these kinds of courses for about 5 or 6 times, then try a regulation course, that is around 6000 yards. Playing in the middle of the day on a week day, should work on these courses, as well. Sometimes very early in the morning will be good and weekends around 5pm, or after will find courses that are not crowded. Some of my favorite rounds were playing in the evening on Saturdays with my Dad. Most golf courses offer discounts for late in the day weekend play. Generally courses with only nine holes are not as busy. Equipment does not have to be expensive. Walking into a golf shop or sporting goods store and looking at new golf equipment can send you into sticker shock. You will fine one club costing over $500 and some sets of irons running around $1500 to $2000. You can find new equipment on E-Bay and other local pro shops that are older models for reasonable prices. A very good set of clubs can be had for under $500 very easily.

If you decide to take up golf, you will find it is a great way to spend time with family and friends. The environment is beautiful and the challenges are many. There is one caveat. Many people feel that golf is not a very physically demanding sport. This is one of many misconceptions about the game. When you learn to swing a golf club, you will be using muscles that you have never used in your life. That is how unique the golf swing is. It’s not to discourage you in starting to play golf, but more of a word to the wise. The greatest part of golf is that no two rounds are ever the same. Golfing in less than ideal weather can be fun and increase the challenge. This is also a good time to get out when the course is not that crowded. I feel you can play golf comfortable in temperatures around 38 degrees, as long as there is not a lot of wind. The most essential pieces of equipment in weather like this, is a good toboggan hat and golf winter gloves. Even playing in a light drizzle with temperatures in the 50’s is not bad, if there is very little wind. Golf will get you outdoors and just make you feel better for doing it. The game has frustrated me to no end, because I have always had some competitive goals when it comes to golf and in general have failed miserably to reach them. I will always be glad and thankful that I took up the game at an early age and have explored this game, more than anything else. It has been a very rewarding spiritual experience. The next blog on Golf will discuss the complex relationship golf has had with society.

Sports

Sports the last subject in making life work. Sports can always be a two edge sword. Some people can be obsessed with a particular sport or a team, and it may prove detrimental to their well being and have a negative impact on most of their relationships. As a general rule I feel that being a sports fan has more benefits than problems. Its like anything in life, you must keep things in perspective, and not let the results of a sports event have too big of impact on your life. As a general rule I feel that people who follow sports, and participate in some kind of sporting activity, are more fun to be around, than people who have no interest at all in sports. There are some exceptions to this but I do feel this is significant.

So for myself, I golf, follow the Pittsburgh Pirates, the Pittsburgh Steeler, College Football, the PGA Tour, and the LPGA tour. Following sports is a nice distraction from the everyday happenings in your life and it allows you to focus on something that really has no negative consequences on how you do it. It can give you something to look forward to at the end of the day or the week. It is like any endeavor, you have to know what to follow and what to ignore. In the case of sports, you want to focus on the game and the action, not what is going on outside the sport. Athletes behaving badly, contract disputes, drug issues and controversies outside of the playing field are things that can make sports very distasteful to some. If you want to just follow it fine, but don’t get too caught up in it. The one world sport out there is soccer. Passion can run really high in soccer. There have been incidences where fans have been injured, and even killed after controversial endings in soccer games. Maybe its not such a bad thing that soccer has not caught on quite that much in the USA. That is carry things way to far. Love the game, love your team but accept the results and move on. Another one of life’s lesson that sports can help you learn.

So in the coming days and weeks, that is what this site is going to be about. I will continue to blog 100% Mental Golf, Golf in general, Meditation, Food, and Sports, in no particular order to help make life work. This not a self help site where this is going to help you achieve your goals, make great relationships and have great happiness. Hopefully it will help you make your life work. What does that mean. Well let’s look at other things in your life. Let’s look at your car. Everybody wants their car to work. When you get in your car you expect it to start. You expect it to take you from point A to point B and most likely back again. When it rains you expect the wipers to work. You want the car to stop properly, and when you hit the gas for the car to have a little pep and get your there quicker. In order for the car to work well, it needs to be taken care of. When all goes well , we sometimes take this for granted and when things don’t work quite right, it can be upsetting. This is the same as life. You want your life to work. It doesn’t have to be successful, but it has to get you from point A to point B and back again. It needs to know when to stop and go. In order for life to work well, it needs to be taken care of. It needs to be appreciative and thankful when things go well, and it needs to know what to do and how to react, when things don’t go that well. Life needs to work. Death is inevitable, no problem there.