Death took center stage this past Sunday, when Kobe Bryant, his daughter and seven other people were killed in a helicopter crash. Anytime a well known person is suddenly killed, especially at a young age, the shock and sorrow is felt nationwide. A tragedy of this significance, seems to bring out the best and the worse in the populous. We hear of not taking any day for granted. Give your love ones a hug, and appreciate them everyday, because you never know what is going to happen. All of this is good advice, and it is a shame when something this sad has to happen to make people verbalize something, that should happen as a natural part of life. There is the saying, I believed attributed to Ben Franklin, that the only two things certain in life, is death and taxes. However, in this day and age, with a good tax attorney, you may not have to pay taxes. That only leaves the certainty of death. No matter how much we may think that we have a lot in common with other people, there is only one thing that links all of us, and that is death. There is not one day that goes by that someone from every age, from birth to 100 years old, will die. Anytime, when someone young dies or children die, we try to make sense of it, or ask the age old question of why. There is no reason or explanation for when some people die. For something that is going to happen to all of us, there doesn’t seem to be a lot of information on the subject. When somebody loses a loved one, whether young or old, people will say they have gone to a better place. Is there any place after death? People like to thing so.
Let us look at some of the more popular beliefs of what happens after death. The most common one is of heaven and hell. If you are a good person you will go to heaven, and if you are a bad person you will go to hell. This was started by the church in my view to help keep people in line. The other belief was, that no matter how many bad things you did, you could be absolved by the church, at the time of your death, and still make into heaven. Again, something the church made up, to keep people coming and giving. If you want to believe in such nonsense, I won’t try and dissuade you. There is no absolute proof that you are wrong, but you are. There is no heaven or hell. Then there is reincarnation, where we come back in a different body or form, maybe even an animal. Again a nice fairy tale, but there is more of a chance of this being true, than the heaven and hell theory. Then we have the belief of the spirit world. This is where we become spirits, and roam the world in a totally different form. Movies, like Ghost and Hereafter, depict what the spirit world may be like. Then, there are people that believe that this is it baby, we are born, and when we die it’s over, we are nothing. This one is always the hardest to come to grips with, if they are right. But if they are wrong, and let’s say there is a spirit world, do they get to participate, because they do not believe? Does what you believe in life, have any relevance at all, after you die? Say there is a heaven and you have lived an exemplary life, but do not believe in God or heaven. Do you get in? Does a contract killer get in, because he believes and the church absolves him of his sin? Does your life have any affect on the so called after life, if there is one?
The questions about death are pretty much endless because nobody knows what exactly happens when you die, except the obvious, you no longer exist, in the living world. There are all kinds of way to die. Death can come suddenly or it may be slow in a prolonged illness. Is it worth fighting to stay alive. I do know one thing, there are a lot of things in this world that are worse than dying. What some people have had to go through in their lives, whether it be through illness, actions of other people, or losing love ones, can make death seem like a blessing. I wake up everyday knowing that this could be my last day on earth and go to bed every night thanking the higher power that my life is still good and my love ones are alive and safe. I know I have no control over either situation. Like any one who has lived a number of years, I have had my close brushes with death. As a 12 year old I fell through a ceiling and came out virtually unscathed, except for a small abrasion on my arm. I have had other close calls as an adult. When people live to be 100 years old, there is always the reporter, who wants to know the secret, to the persons longevity. They go through a few things, and some may make some sense. They all seem to leave out one very important thing. Luck, in my view is the number one reason for longevity, just good old luck. What happens after is anybodies guess. I will do my best to let you know when it happens to me.